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(2021) The Easy Smile

6 tricks to have a more attractive smile!
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Ever notice your friend confidently approach a girl in a bar, and simply walk away without so much as a glance back or smile, while you try to figure out what he was up to? Well, that’s not necessarily the joke. It’s more of a silly practical joke of a way of being.

You see, most human beings shoot themselves in the foot. Now, this can be select to buttons that we have pushed in our brains since birth, but the basic fact is, we shoot ourselves in the foot. We will not simply accept the fact that we are being approached. If we do, then we hide behind the shield of unfounded security.

That’s right, we have the tendency to automatically become self-defeating because we fear rejection. As I have mentioned in prior articles, we usually have ego rumination syndrome. So yes, it’s up to a guy to be proactive and approach a woman, and yes, even the coward within us, to get into the “Moving Around Presentation”.

Don’t be afraid to contribute to the conversation when a woman is talking, especially if you are a woman. In other words, share your experiences and advice. If you want to touch on a point that she is making, by all means, let her know that it is related to her. If you have a topic that she simply can’t get off her mind… share your stories about that topic. In other words, open up your minds and your stars.

Smile Benefits

Women, ESPECIALLY HOT WOMEN, are constantly on the lookout for guys that will contribute to the conversation. By simply carrying on this conversation, even after she has herself become overwhelmed with other thoughts– has had too much to drink, has spent the last hour tweak trying to do her hair just right, or put herself on the gym trying to loosen up her clothes.

She needs you to participate in the flow of the conversation because women by nature need emotional stimulation.

Keeping this simple is the easiest way of beating approach anxiety. Your costs are labor and effort, and she irrefutable gain a relaxed state of mind and heart, plus a bond built over time. You do start with a smile and see it turns a woman off more than not.

I’ve done hundreds of approaches in the past as a matter of fact, and they don’t always end up the way I wanted, ended up in a gold dig rather than a relationship. But instead of the issue and adjustments, I talk about it as if it were handled effortlessly. It should be automatic like it should have nothing to offer with regards to its performance. You don’t have to blink to know it’s working to send the message.

I’d like to say that the problem is that people to this day, especially men, don’t know what women want and they do it solely on a sexual level, rather than a loving one. So they shoot themselves in the foot without even knowing it. They end up approaching a woman who is not in the mood, or simply one who is out of her element, to make a new buddy rather than an actual mate.

This is a very painful thing to endure, and if you aren’t the type of guy to put up with that, then I suppose you don’t want to deal with women rejecting you. But the truth of the matter is that there are ways to approach a woman, and not the least of which is the approach anxiety that plague so many human beings.

I do feel a certain amount of altruism in wanting to help out those less fortunate than myself, and that I try to help men such as this by educating them on a few do’s and don’ts when interacting with beautiful women. The more men know about this, the better, and ultimately it is their responsibility to disappear the issue once and for all and overcome this self-imposed bias. I just hope they are willing to put in the time and effort to learn from me and become better at this part of their lives as it applies specifically to meeting women.

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Completely Understanding Alpha Women Role Models and Characteristics

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In the article I have written about the differences between dominant and submissive women, I have also briefly discussed the characteristics of ‘Alpha Women’ as far as I am concerned. Well, the description of an alpha woman may be somewhat harsh, but when one conceives her, she is a true picture of this great lady. One could say she is a princess.

Many people have misconceptions when it comes to the term “alpha women”. This is because of the misconception that this group of women has certain traits, hence they are considered as “lesser women”. Well, in my opinion, this is not true because not all of them fall in the category of alpha women. Just like any other woman, they could be ‘lesser men’.

Now, the ‘tired perception of the women who belong in this category is due to their attributes. I describe these abilities and traits in the next few paragraphs.

KEY TO THE ALPHA WOMEN ATTITUDE

She believes that she needs to be ‘protective’ of others.

She is very supportive of the male somehow.

She is very honest and never transforms what she feels at a particular time into what she thinks others should think or how society might perceive her.

She is programmed to care for everyone and especially loved ones such as family members, friends, and lovers.

Now, the trait of an alpha woman may be protected, but not ALL women need protection. I am only pointing this out for the sake of clarification. Even the protected women have their own wants and needs, and may still want to ‘play’ around even after being protected. And this plays a part in why they cannot just fit into this behavior category.

Now, the behavior of an alpha woman may be protected, but not ALL. She is not the icon of protection because she will not get herself involved in protecting someone without strong motives. She will not do anything that will compromise her integrity. She may or may not get jealous. She is comfortable with herself and does not need the approval of others. She may or may not get needy. These are just some of the attributes of this type of woman.

Now, the why they are cautious may partly be because of their sibling influence. Their parents may have groomed them well, and taught them the right values (that they have), which may have led them to be somewhat lacking in confidence (but never lacks in self-esteem), which in turn taught them to be somewhat cautious without KNOWING their intentions. Only time will tell whether their fears will prove to be true or false.

As for the LACK of confidence, it is a * subconscious response to what women feel about themselves, and the need for validation. Once women feel that their social value falls too low, they turn to men to boost their pride, which in turn triggers the need for validation.

If women are too preoccupied with their looks and have spent hours getting ready for a date, forget getting to know the man, and get instead distracted with their looks. They forget about the man and become preoccupied with their appearance. Now that has got to be one description of the modern ‘beautiful women’. I agree.

Modern beauties have forgotten their beauties giving, and the key reason why they become so preoccupied with their looks is because of the influence of beauty-related ideals in their minds, such as: being thin, having blond, green eyes, high-heels, cleavage, etc. Even if an individual has money, it doesn’t mean that he/she is an alpha female because of the amount of hard-earned cash they have (with the intention of showing off), or because they own a home, etc.

The greater the level of beauty in her, the more preoccupied an alpha female is with her appearance (and that includes the validation question Divine Case), because she needs this validation to give her self-esteem a little more.

Now, you can inject this attitude without being a complete alpha or a Swing unsustainable, but you can only do it by getting to understand the Rasmussen of Love. You can’t ‘political your way to high self-esteem or to fulfill your heart’s desire for a blissful passion without the correct relationship with the opposite sex. Being secure in your relationship with Love is not the same as getting something for nothing, or having his/her approval.

Once you can understand WHY the male or female sexual desire is so strong, and that without the booster, the desire can be turned into a crazed animal ( ec Signature )itas not to mention, require something in return to keep it pumping.

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(2021) How To Get The Guy To Chase You Without Checking Your Tabloids Instantly !

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How to Get the Guy to Chase You? How do you do that?

So you have a guy you like and you want to catch his eye and keep it.

Men are naturally lazy and passive. So if you are a woman that is originally successful with men then check your posture. Always stand up straight with your head held high and your shoulders pushed back. Wear high-quality clothes that make you feel confident and sexy, without giving the impression you are trying to look or feel cheap.

The next thing to do is catch his eye and keep it. That means don’t be in such a hurry to get his attention but make sure you intrigue him with your enigmatic personality. How do you do that?

Well, you must have other things going on in your life besides your pursuit for Mr. Right!

Once you are sure you catch his eye smile at him, if he smiles back that’s a huge step in the right direction. Now you must remain in the center of the conversation and NOT on the side of the room or in a corner. One minute you are in the middle of a conversation with this hot hunny and the next you are on the other side of the room but you still have not made your move. Still trying to get his attention.

Now comes the time where you make your move. You smile at him. He smiles back. You can hear laughter, girls are always giggling and being playful. Smile at him a second time. Wait for a couple of minutes. If he doesn’t move his head then you got him.

Now make your move. If he is still sitting there smiling, well. . . it looks like he is not interested anymore.

A couple of minutes go by. He gets up from his seat and moves toward you.

Here is an example for your research..

“Hi!” You return his smile “Hi, I’m Jessica from your science class. How have you been?”

“I have been good catching up from my classes, I’ve had a really exciting day today. How have you been?” He pulls you in for a hug “I’ve been really busy too. It’s been awesome.”

“I’ve had a really busy week too. It’s been good learning how to make the really good grades at my new school.” You smile “I see. How have you been?”

“I’ve been really busy too. It’s been a little roller coaster ride, but I’m having a lot of fun. I finally found myself.” He leans in for another hug “That’s good. I had so much fun this week.”

“I see. You’ve had your fun. What do you have planned for your date later?” You ask him confidently.

“No idea. I was thinking about going to the beach and riding the wave, but the seaside is too rough.” He says with a wave of the hand.

“What about this Friday night, here’s the address. I’m looking forward to going.” Your smile is wide and your confidence is high because you are the intelligent one.

“That sounds great. I’ll bring some.” You say with a wave of the hand and have him help you with the bag. You take the bag behind you and walk out and away from the scene, but keep your eye on him.

“That was great. You can do that until class is over.” He motions to you as he walks away “Be sure to come close to me so I can tell you how awesome your surfing skills are.”

“Bye.” You say goodbye and shut the door. You have a life of your own and are doing things you love, which you’ve been doing for a year. You met him because he liked your smile and friendliness. AND a few other reasons.

These are the things that you can do to get yourself a boyfriend. This is how you do it:

  1. Plan ahead. Figure out what kind of date you are looking for. Figure out what kind of smile you will wear. Take a day to shop for your clothes and a day to shop for some new clothes.
  2. If you need to go out and eat, eat somewhere fancy. Out of the ordinary is always good.
  3. Be someone a man would want to be around. Talk about something intelligent you would know about.
  4. Tone up your body. Run every morning. Exercise your gluteus and quadriceps. You will notice a great difference in your figure that will give you a bounce in your step. Men are very particular with the body, but few realize it.
  5. Be outspoken and tell the world what a great time you are having. Have fun!
  6. Don’t make yourself too available. You have a life so you should not answer his calls right away.
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Use the Internet Dating Sites to Find That Special Someone

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They say that the thing which is shared most is, the thing that is most valued. So, now, how do you go about finding that special someone? They say just be yourself. But isn’t it difficult to be yourself when you’re on a date?

Sharing yourself with someone in the smallest details such as your likes dislikes, your passions, hobbies, and yes even your negative things about yourself can be considered as one of the most obvious methods in winning over the other person and wanting to be honest with all the things that you do to be happy. Normally, it is very hard to show someone what you want. It is also very difficult to obtain what one wants if one doesn’t show it in the right manner.

Boosting and developing your confidence is one of the ways in winning over someone for being a person whom you love and want to spend your life with. You can find a couple of review sites on the internet that can do a good job of providing you with information on how you can greatly boost and develop your initial confidence. You can also just ask other fellow internet dating dates and see how they feel about getting that much-needed confidence. In internet dating, it is also considered a very important factor to know how you can be fair as a person for being honest and having an interesting character. By just improving your initial self-confidence through self-assessment exercises and mind-protective measures, you will definitely generate a better you. By just improving your initial self-confidence, you will have more memories, lessons, wisdom, and mistakes to avoid just like an accident. Internet dating requires one to enhance and develop his/her personality.

Internet dating sites provide a lot of data, features, photographs, and information that can help you improve your self-confidence and even win over that special someone that you wish to spend the rest of your life with. By just enhancing and developing your self-confidence, you can become more interesting, attractive, and easier to be introduced to. You can just turn internet dating into a favor.

Here are some of the things that you can do to improve your self-confidence:

  1. Think positive. It isn’t always necessary to fulfill certain desires or goals to be self-confident. Just develop some mental Reserves, discipline and positive habit of mind. Below are some important tips of self-creepnosis which is one of the most powerful methods in self-creepnosis. It is capable of helping you overcome panic, shortenanticinity, shyness, and even raise your self-esteem. You can use it in the world of internet dating to win over the other person and get that romantic date for sure.
  2. Improve your physical appearance. Your physical appearance is one of the first things that others see in you. If you want to be more confident in how you look, you should begin fixing your body and figure. You definitely have to look and smell good. Look for fitness centers or therapists who can do a good job for you to be able to improve the way you look for better physical results.
  3. Be more self-confident by taking different risks. Sometimes, you just don’t have the luxury of hesitating from the very beginning. By taking different risks, you can actually improve your odds of success and encounter new opportunities.
  4. Understand others. Unfortunately, some people always make decisions for the women or men based on their current set of information. You will never be able to introduce new ideas and attitudes unless you know how to communicate. You should know how to accept the other person’s feedback and opinions.
  5. Be interested in others. You should never assume that your date will like something just because you want it. It is always better if you are interested on the subject or thing. Even if you know a lot about the topic, you should show interest in other people. Listen to him talk about his interests, and you will be able to understand his interests and the things that he really likes. All people secretly wish that someone knows more about them, and so you can be that someone who listens.

Internet dating, and indeed, modern dating in general, requires one to take risks. However, what risk does is that it may turn into a good experience. Or, you may experience a bad experience, but that does not matter as long as you did your best to minimize the risk and reap the reaping of the opportunity. So, go out there internet dating.

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How to Let Your Girlfriend Go on a Happy Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s day is a special day that we, as men, really value. It is the day of all those romantic fairy tales where our princess is in distress and we secretly hold the prince and Quest for healing and happiness. On a day like that, you would want to express your love to your girlfriend on this day. But what if your boyfriend is a single guy who has NO CHILDREN. Or a friend who has a girlfriend, but no boyfriend. Well, it’s time for you to make Valentine’s day for yourself!!!! Because it’s only natural for you to want to find a partner, simply because no one really wants to spend Valentine’s day alone. Now searching for a boyfriend or a girlfriend isn’t easy and you are not alone, because unfortunately the pool is deep and most people are willing to look rather than themselves.

Now I said that I am a guy, but I know a lot of you ladies out there feel that I am taking one side of the spectrum. And that’s just not true. You are absolutely right. I am a guy and I do have romantic desires. But I also know that some of you are looking for something more meaningful and final. Valentine’s day for those of you is a big day for you, and not really something to take to your grave as it would be for the rest of us guys. So I’m going to share something with you. And believe me, it’s going to be free of charge, but maybe a little expensive to boot, so pay your tab first.

What’s that? You want something physical, sure, something cuddly, surely not a ring or a beautiful card. What I want is FUN. And not just for you or even me. What I want is something that is going to remind you of how much you can make warm your care for someone even if all you have is an internet connection and a computer.

I want for you to be able to bring your lover close to you in a secure, safe, mutual, interesting, fun, emotionally rich, and pleasing environment. Once you have connected with this special someone, you can share experiences together that could ignite your lover’s passion and your attention. Together, you will learn all about each other on the deep relationship you have.

I want you to be able to freely communicate with your loved one. You must be able to talk to that person as relaxed as possible. I want for the both of you to be able to relate and feel each other connected to the point where you both could feel things that only people in the same rapport can feel.

I want the two of you to be able to laugh together. Got interests, dreams, ambitions, and yes, even fears together. I want for there to be a willingness for you both to sacrifice any more than normal as you laugh at yourselves and each other and together. I want for you to be able to share your daily routines, and slowly but surely just become best friends.

Now, the last one may seem a bit private, but I promise you, you will be bit by bit able to reveal more of yourself, personal stuff, and soon enough that it will all be revealed. Right? So here’s my example. The last thing the two of you will be discussing is going to the beach during a vacation. Maybe you can ask him how he would like to relax by the water instead of going out on the prowl.

My brother tried that one. My Girlfriend thought it was the stupidest thing she’s ever heard. My friend, for his part, actually misinterpreted it, thinking that the two of them should genuinely be able to share something so special and sacred. It ended up being the funniest thing he’s ever done on his dating site, and he even came back and told me how funny it was.

So in conclusion, I hope you have found this article informative and interesting. Believe me, nothing too heavy, or profound just yet, but the information given may bring some new light to your current relationship or help you find one.