If you haven’t heard of the phrase “sugar daddy”, it may be because it has become such a cliche that it has lost its meaning. But in the dating world, you can no longer fail to be a “sugar daddy” if you want to actually succeed at dating.
And this is the first step to becoming a successful dating participant: identifying what you want out of the experience. At this stage, if you are a man, you are really seeking to have a successful and mutually beneficial relationship with an older woman who has the means and willingness to invest in you. Does that ring a bell?
If so, then you are not alone. Many men want the same thing out of their dating experiences with women, and the good news is, many women are ready to fulfill that desire with you if you’ll be the “matchmaker” to find her.
I believe that many of our moderns Inspectors of morals would nod at that thought. But the truth is, no one is watching the movie to see what kind of person she is – only that fact that she is actively choosing to be with you. She is doing it out of her own desire, and so you must be careful to treat her with respect and set yourself apart as that which she needs in a partner.
Consider this: you treat her with respect, set yourself apart as the one who is able to take good care of her, and best of all, you are the one walking away if things don’t work out. It’s simple: deal with character flaws.
But many of you out there don’t know what to do – or say – when dealing with women. Here is the second reason why being a sugar daddy is the best way to start meet a great girl and enjoy the experience of dating.
Women always look for approval
Posting your messages on Facebook or MySpace isn’t enough to garner her attention. You have to get to meet face-to-face and start to talk like you have known each other for years. Women like to know that they are valued as a person. Call her out on something she said about herself, such as her outfit is uncomfortable.
And while she is looking for approval, she will be watching your actions – so look out for positive and harmless comments. Don’t be afraid to disagree with her, as women love men who are confident and stand up for what they believe in, even when everyone else is not.
My tip would be to meet her in public, not at her place of employment. Keep things brief and light, and don’t use rehearsed “Will you go out with me?” lines. You’re not one of her girlfriends yet, and she doesn’t want you to bunch together in an office feel. You can do your thing in private, where you can be away from all the other influences in her life.
Being out and about helps you to not get stuck in the usual grind of evenings together, grilling over the latest ice cream from the shop or checking out the latest exhibits at the exhibits. garlic is always a good icebreaker, and if you can pull in her purse and get her on a train like a train shown inadyattery.
Some women crave excitement
It’s not every woman that will immediately answer your phone or respond to an invitation. So you need to get her thinking about you and wondering if you’ll ever see her again somehow, and how she is supposed to feel.
You can do this by always being on the move, the kinds of which include: racingcycling
As you can see, by being a sugar daddy, you can pretty much be any woman’s best friend. In fact, a good “sugar daddy” knows how to treat women the right way, and their right way should be the same way that you treat them. No woman should feel as though you are taking advantage of her. Even when you are trying to win her over, it is important to remain as the man she first liked.