What do men want in a woman?
This is one question women have been unable to answer. If you’re like most women, you’ve probably had some experience answering questions with mixed results. Some women think men think like and say the perfect things. But when you dig deeper, you often find that men aren’t in agreement with what they actually say.
For those of you that aren’t satisfied with the following, this article is for you. Inside of this article, you will learn the answer to “What do men want in a woman?” You’ll learn things about men that no woman has ever thought about.
They want women who aren’t afraid to speak their minds.
Believe it or not, men have a problem understanding women who aren’t afraid to speak their minds. Men aren’t communicating their way of being attracted to you. Men aren’t communicating how they FEEL. When you get everything that your mom taught you about boys, it’s not because men aren’t trying, they just don’t know how to express themselves.
Sometimes, men guess what you’re trying to say but can’t tell brother to do that. Men are constantly trying to figure out FEELINGS. Men are constantly trying to figure out WOMEN. That’s a fact. I can’t stress to you enough about that fact. Men are trying to figure out how to feel. But they don’t know how to express that. So sometimes, they communicate how they feel in a totally different way. Sometimes they are seemingly speaking a different language ( gibberish ) than what you would speak.
So to make it simple, sometimes men communicate HOW they feel in a different way. Other times, they don’t seem to be communicating at all. Oftentimes, when a man is not communicating how he feels, he’s trying to figure out how to show you how he feels. He’s trying to figure out how to make you feel what he wants to feel.
But it’s not enough to just know how to communicate. It’s also about knowing how to show you how he feels. Sometimes he’s not telling you how he feels, because he needs you to know how he feels too.
Everyman has standards.
Some standards are universal. Women should not expect men that they’re not genuinely attracted to ask them out or to do anything for them. It’s pressuring. It’s sending a message that they’re unworthy. He needs to respect himself first if he’s going to find someone worthy of caring about.
When a man is not communicating how he feels, it’s because he doesn’t know how to show you how he feels. Sometimes he doesn’t know how to show you how he feels because he’s afraid to. He needs an opportunity, an open mind, and he needs to move past his fear of rejection.
When he does have an opportunity to explain how he feels and he doesn’t know how to express himself, sometimes he’ll settle for the communication he gets from you. Sometimes it’s all about him, and he’ll only talk about his feelings to please you.
Maybe he doesn’t know how to express himself, but he does know how to get what he wants. He knows how to treat you the way he wants to be treated. And this is what gives him the advantage to get the woman he wants. Thinking that he might be losing you hurts him, and it takes him doing things he’s not proud of to win you back.
So if he seems to be out of your reach, try using understanding and patience to welcome him back instead of pushing him away. It might be a little lonely if he leaves, but it will make him strive harder to get you back.
