How to Make Him Call You
Men in relationships do not like to seem desperate so it’s hard to read his signs. How do you suppose you’ll tell if he’s interested in you? He wouldn’t waste his time calling you if he didn’t care. Most men find it hard to call a girl because of the associated stigma. He can be laughing, talking with his friends, at a club or a poker table. Some men are ashamed to call a girl so if you want to know if he’s into you, try to gauge his aloofness first. Maybe he likes you but wishes he could hide it.
You don’t have to spend much to make a guy like you. You just have to be yourself. Although some women are naturally stealth inasers. It’s hard to tell if they’re into men or not. What I can tell you is that some tricks even the most reclusive man would love to play under certain conditions.
Any guy would love to call you if you’re available. There are certain conditions though that would be ideal.
First, you must accept that sometimes men don’t like to call, and even if they do they expect you to call them. If you ever make plans or try to call him don’t bother him by paying particular attention to this fact. He should be able to pick up the phone to call you. And even if you can’t, don’t fret for a while. He has his ways of fixing fights. Once he decides it’s time to settle a fuss, just go ahead and let a week pass before you finally try calling him.
Whenever you talk to a man, whether inside or outside your home, never bring up bad attributed things that happened in his absence. Every time you do, you are lowering your value in his eyes. The same goes for family members. Avoid saying bad things about his mother, sister, or father. Saying good things about them will surely make him want to come back to you.
You must never discuss your break-up with him. Mention how much you miss him, how angry you are at your ex. Don’t complain about things that he has no clue what caused. He will never be able to take it as you have still moved on. The more you say, the more he will think he knows and that will hurt him no end.
Never go for a rebound man. Men who are just seeking a new girlfriend during their break do no one any good. They’ll most likely just use you to get over their ex-girlfriends. It is advisable that you get involved with a man who wants something more than just a new girlfriend for the time being. You could ask him to be a friend while you continue your search. You can find that after a few weeks, something has shifted in your relationship.
When he is Verbally Affectionate
A man who is affectionate is a man who wants to be in a relationship. If he treats a member of the family as a member of the family, it means he still sees his ex-girlfriend. All the other signs, such as wanting to spend loads of time together, possession of his time, possessiveness, sharing of information about each other, concern, and sympathy, are positive.
It also does not hurt a man to be affectionate and it could even be the sign that he feels affection for you. Look at the context of how he talks. If he is always talking about how much he “wants” to be close to you or kissing up to you physically it means he is still on the ex-girlfriend’s worry. It is usually the same for women. And, if situated to be physical it means it is no longer a one-way relationship. You are still either a friend or a girlfriend depending on the degree of your interaction with him.
Most men do not want to hurt a woman they love. If he is kissing your cheek, hugging you often even for no apparent reason, helping with chores or simply carrying your groceries then there is a good chance he still likes you – as much as you like him.