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(2021) Truths For Meeting Women

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Here are the best truths for meeting women.

The more men try to pick up women, the more demeaning they appear.

The more you provide, the less you get. If all you give is your delightful services, you will get nothing.

Let the woman come to you. Women do not like to be bothered with planning and seduction.

You will often hear a woman say, “Oh, how can he do that! Where have you been all this time?”

And you will answer, “Oh, I’m not a big talker. I’m quiet by nature.”

You don’t get his attention then.

So if the job is to get your attention, do not get obsessed about that. Nothing is going to give you sheer connections and aura that you can use every time.

You are the greatest intimidator around her.

If a man appears needy and transitory, he loses every time.

The problem with the ego is it has no loyalty.

It will keep thinking of itself and will reward you when it is rewarded.

So it is very dangerous if you decide early on that you will reward this wasting.

I’m warning you now, it will be an injustice to the one you love if you reward this ego state.

It’s true, if she is convinced that you will reward her for screwing up, she will look for other prospects.

The problem is the granting of bonus points, and the abuse of connections will lead you to lose everything you thought was valuable.

And what is the quality of your connection when you are with her?

It is seeing how far it will go, and how good you are in letting her forget herself and become a mere accessory.

You will never become a “real man” with her if you pour the meaning in the least amount of time.

The more women you meet, the more confused you become about the ones you want to keep.

I don’t care if you have ten different women in your life.

Genuine love for what’s yours is a beautiful thing for any man to have.

The problem, a beautiful woman will not stay exactly where you put her.

One of her tricks is figuring out how to find the guy who gives her the most happiness.

If you meet a woman and you absolutely want to keep her, then you must pay attention and let her go.

I’m not talking about calling her to a date but making her want to find out what’s in you which will justify her staying with her, to begin with.

A truly happy woman will want to share the most things in you, she will try all sorts of things to find out the true self and the happiness you can bring to her life.

She will keep looking for the way to happiness, to happiness.

No matter how much you try to persuade her otherwise, she will fight to get you for a moment (if she has you at all).

But, if you can walk away anytime, she will find happiness, and she will find an escape from all the drama that has got her to stay.

That escape will be the only way for her to save her wellbeing.

I’m not talking about being abusive here by continuing to punish her.

The fact is, all women have the potential to experience ulterior motives in every man they meet, so the man has the power to choose.

He chooses whether or not he is good enough for her.

Women will do anything to hang out with you if you are good enough for her.

This is the secret.

To get her, you have to show her that you are absolutely not suitable for her, but she will care about what you can bring to the relationship thus far.

For instance, many women have found dates with perverted men and have those men as their boyfriends.

There is really no possible path for any woman to accept this and yet it usually does not happen.

This is how men get fictitious numbers, the ones which are irrelevant, abusive, unacceptable….

We do the same, we simply give a woman fake numbers which she can give to all her friends.

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(2021) The Easy Smile

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Ever notice your friend confidently approach a girl in a bar, and simply walk away without so much as a glance back or smile, while you try to figure out what he was up to? Well, that’s not necessarily the joke. It’s more of a silly practical joke of a way of being.

You see, most human beings shoot themselves in the foot. Now, this can be select to buttons that we have pushed in our brains since birth, but the basic fact is, we shoot ourselves in the foot. We will not simply accept the fact that we are being approached. If we do, then we hide behind the shield of unfounded security.

That’s right, we have the tendency to automatically become self-defeating because we fear rejection. As I have mentioned in prior articles, we usually have ego rumination syndrome. So yes, it’s up to a guy to be proactive and approach a woman, and yes, even the coward within us, to get into the “Moving Around Presentation”.

Don’t be afraid to contribute to the conversation when a woman is talking, especially if you are a woman. In other words, share your experiences and advice. If you want to touch on a point that she is making, by all means, let her know that it is related to her. If you have a topic that she simply can’t get off her mind… share your stories about that topic. In other words, open up your minds and your stars.

Smile Benefits

Women, ESPECIALLY HOT WOMEN, are constantly on the lookout for guys that will contribute to the conversation. By simply carrying on this conversation, even after she has herself become overwhelmed with other thoughts– has had too much to drink, has spent the last hour tweak trying to do her hair just right, or put herself on the gym trying to loosen up her clothes.

She needs you to participate in the flow of the conversation because women by nature need emotional stimulation.

Keeping this simple is the easiest way of beating approach anxiety. Your costs are labor and effort, and she irrefutable gain a relaxed state of mind and heart, plus a bond built over time. You do start with a smile and see it turns a woman off more than not.

I’ve done hundreds of approaches in the past as a matter of fact, and they don’t always end up the way I wanted, ended up in a gold dig rather than a relationship. But instead of the issue and adjustments, I talk about it as if it were handled effortlessly. It should be automatic like it should have nothing to offer with regards to its performance. You don’t have to blink to know it’s working to send the message.

I’d like to say that the problem is that people to this day, especially men, don’t know what women want and they do it solely on a sexual level, rather than a loving one. So they shoot themselves in the foot without even knowing it. They end up approaching a woman who is not in the mood, or simply one who is out of her element, to make a new buddy rather than an actual mate.

This is a very painful thing to endure, and if you aren’t the type of guy to put up with that, then I suppose you don’t want to deal with women rejecting you. But the truth of the matter is that there are ways to approach a woman, and not the least of which is the approach anxiety that plague so many human beings.

I do feel a certain amount of altruism in wanting to help out those less fortunate than myself, and that I try to help men such as this by educating them on a few do’s and don’ts when interacting with beautiful women. The more men know about this, the better, and ultimately it is their responsibility to disappear the issue once and for all and overcome this self-imposed bias. I just hope they are willing to put in the time and effort to learn from me and become better at this part of their lives as it applies specifically to meeting women.